• LIFING CHRONICLES

    Opinions are Like seeds you decide where you want them to germinate. I am a people pleaser,I am not ashamed to say it. I attach too much importance to people’s opinions of me and my work.I am on a journey of self discovery of being able to give myself grace and not beat myself up if I do not leave up to people’s expectations. People’ s expectations are such a heavy weight to carry on my stressed shoulders.

    I am not perfect and in the grand skim of time I want to be unapologetically me . I am learning in this season that unsolicited advice may be showing care but could also come across as interfering. Advice is worthless if it’s not applied. Sometimes allow people to experience things their own way.

    I listen to advice and weigh how it applies to my situation. I take some and disregard some, at the end of the day it is my life. My life is a result of all the decisions I have made, some were great while some sucked. I don’t regret them, I believe there is always room for change and improvement.

    As I reflect of some of the best decisions I have made within the past months, pacing myself and taking one step at a time has helped me not to feel pressured and to work towards deadlines so as to avoid last minute major changes. I like having a plan and structure, but adapting to unstructured situations has boosted my confidence. I might not get it right on the first try but I have promised myself to continue working on it.

  • I have being dealing with grief . Some days it feels so dark I really don’t want to talk to anybody. Writing has always helped me deal with pain.
    I am Arrey Ngonto, I choose to use my middle name here .It reminds me of my father who loved calling me by my middle name.I always thought my dad will live long because he made sure he took care of his body aka temple by eating healthy and not consuming any diary nor alcohol. Life had other plans for my father.This is just an outlet for me to express my thoughts. Maybe I will summon the courage to give others access to this blog. I suffer from crippling imposter syndrome.

    My friends and family think I have a lot to share with others. I have a lot of ideas , execution will likely make me leave my comfort zone. I really don’t like leaving my comfort zone.

  • The Art of Connection

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  • Beyond the Obstacle

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  • Growth Unlocked

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  • Collaboration Magic

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